A few things, quietly handled.

Small tools, made for the life you already have. Take what’s useful with you.

Your bio, written properlyThree lengths, in your voice, for the program, the board page, the grant. Plus a quiet note on what you may have undersold.
A signature cocktail for your gatheringDesign one of your own, or have a classic rendered the proper way. Name, recipe, garnish, shopping list, all of it.
A dinner where no one eats around their plateTell me who is coming and what they cannot eat. One menu that works for everyone, the seating handled, then a recipe pack or a caterer brief.
What your room is trying to beShow me a few photos of a room you want to change. I'll name what it's reaching for, what's working, and what's quietly fighting itself. The words you can hand your designer.